If you are going to accept what I am saying in the belief heuristic you have to be a servant. While you believe in yourself, you understand that we live in a society. For you to thrive, we all must thrive. If we cannot all thrive, the idea is to get as many of us to thrive as we can.
You can dedicate your life to serving the maximum amount of people possible and this might be your calling, however, are you serving yourself correctly? Is this what you are really looking for? Are you abandoning your life partner in your desire to serve?